November is National Children’s Grief Awareness Month. At Valerie’s House, children's grief awareness is recognized every day. However, to people outside of Valerie’s House, the feelings of grieving children can easily be underestimated or misunderstood. For this reason, it is important to inform people how deeply grief can effect a child.

One of the most difficult things to do with our children who are going through grief is to help them regulate their emotions. You can have the smartest, most amazingly talented child in the world, but if they are going through grief, their intellect is “out the window” because the innate sense of survival, along with their emotions of safety and security, is their number one goal. This is the main reason why their emotional regulation is very difficult to control.

Over time the meaning of Memorial Day has been overshadowed by cookouts, parties, big sales, and a long weekend to kick off summer. While we can appreciate the fun things that come along with this time of year, it’s important for us to recognize those who have given the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom.

There is nothing quite as fun as reaching a small goal in a game with your closest rivals, your family members, before they do.

“PASS GO and COLLECT $200!” “WHOO HOO!!!” you shout as your sibling’s face gets jealous for a second!

These times together as a family give much more than momentary doses of “feel-good.” Games can actually strengthen family bonds for the better.

She’s an Valerie’s House entrepreneur with a bright future ahead of her.

At only ten years old, this Valerie’s House- Fort Myers child started her own jewelry-making business to save money for her future.

Nataliya attends group night on Tuesday nights to grieve the death of her sister and grandmother.

She started making handcrafted jewelry in June 2022 and has seen great growth since her debut in the community.

What do Spiderman, Batman, Superman, and Disney princesses Anna, Elsa, Belle, and Jasmine have in common? (Besides being popular Halloween costumes and beloved heroes). They have all lost their parent(s). These larger-than-life characters experienced a tragedy that each of our children and teens at Valerie’s House knows all too well.

Traditions, big or small, are an important part of our lives. Whether it’s a tradition of having Sunday pancakes, an annual trip, or a holiday celebration, these meaningful rituals connect us through the actions we take together. As a result, we grow to love and rely on them as a comforting constant in our lives.

When we lose a loved one, it feels like we have lost a part of what makes these practices so special.

Students, teachers, and parents everywhere are gearing up for another school year, and this can bring a variety of feelings and emotions for children who are grieving the loss of a loved one.

As the grown-ups in children’s lives, we want to be as aware and prepared as possible to create an environment in which our children who are grieving can feel safe to feel their feelings.

Here in sunny southwest Florida, summertime often comes with trips to the beach, water park, lake, and other outdoor fun. The routine and schedule of being in school have changed, and this change can be welcomed but may also be hard. For families grieving the death of someone they love, these cheery sunshine-filled activities may not feel good, and that is okay.

Did you know that for about $3.50 a day, or $100 a month, you can help Valerie’s Houe provide grief support to a child for a little over a year? The Friends of Valerie Monthly Giving Club allows its members to spread their donations throughout the year and make a big impact.