The United Way of Charlotte County Awards Valerie's House with $37,000 Grant

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 The United Way of Charlotte County Awards Valerie's House with $37,000 Grant

FORT MYERS, Fla. – February 9, 2023 – A $37,152 grant has been awarded to Valerie’s House, a nonprofit organization in Southwest Florida helping children grieve, which will help expand the organization’s grief support services in Charlotte County.

This grant was made possible by the United Way of Charlotte County and will help fund Valerie’s House peer grief support groups.

“We are so thankful to receive support from the United Way of Charlotte County,” Valerie’s House Charlotte County Director Christine Carey said. “This partnership will help us expand our reach to help more grieving children in our community.”

More than 4,000 children living in Charlotte County have experienced the death of a parent or sibling. Valerie’s House Charlotte County currently provides services to grieving families out of New Life Church in Punta Gorda and Holy Trinity Lutheran Church in Port Charlotte.

“Our group nights continue to grow as we raise awareness of our services,” Carey said. “Bereaved families need support, and it’s crucial to be able to provide them with resources at no cost.”

Research shows that bereaved teens have higher high school dropout rates, lower test scores, and lower college attendance. Young children who experience the death of a parent or sibling are more likely to be expelled from school, repeat a grade, and are less likely to be enrolled in gifted education programs.

Thankfully, research also indicates that interventions, like the grief support programs offered by Valerie’s House, can mitigate these risks and improve the likelihood that grieving families will thrive despite their devastating loss.

Valerie’s House programming is designed to teach grieving children that loss doesn’t have to limit their dreams. What began as grief support groups held twice per month has evolved into a complete offering of wraparound services designed to fully support the mental health and well-being of each grieving child and their caregiver.

About Valerie’s House

Since its opening in 2016, Valerie’s House has helped more than 2,000 children grieve the loss of a loved one.

Valerie’s House currently offers support groups and other activities at a home on 1762 Fowler Street in Fort Myers and a home in Naples at 819 Myrtle Terrace. Valerie’s House also holds group meetings at New Life Church in Punta Gorda and Holy Trinity Lutheran Church in Port Charlotte. Valerie’s House is a United Way partner agency and is fully supported by community donations. More information can be found at www.valerieshouse.org.

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Naples Winter Wine Festival to benefit Valerie’s House, bereaved children

The Naples Winter Wine Festival kicks off this week, and 2023 focused on raising money to support children’s mental health. One of those groups helping Southwest Florida kids is Valerie’s House, a nonprofit that provides support for children grieving the death of a loved one.

The first things you notice when you walk into Valerie’s House at 819 Myrtle Terrace in Naples are the bright colors and a sprawling paper tree.

Mackenzie Francois added a green leaf and explained what it represented.

“All the kids come, and they write the loved one’s name on a leaf,” Mackenzie said. Her own leaf is in remembrance of her mother.

“It says ‘love you,’ and I wrote the letters of the song that she and I would sing when I was a kid,” Mackenzie said.

The song is “Because You Loved Me” by Celine Dion. When Mackenzie was 16, her mom suffered a stroke and died months later. Not only did Mackenzie lose the rock in her life, but she also had to move to Southwest Florida from the east coast to live with distant cousins, then enroll in a new school and start over.

Mackenzie describes that time as a blur.

“It was never, like, sitting down and processing, ‘OK, this is what’s happening; this is how we have to move on from this,'” Mackenzie said. “I don’t think that my body really or my mind processed how I was feeling at the time, and so I was kind of on autopilot.”

One month after her mom died, we went into COVID-19 lockdown and school went online.

“It was kind of just me being alone and grieving alone,” Mackenzie said. “And when we went back to school, my counselor told me about Valerie’s House.”

Sarah Andrus is the outreach director at Valerie’s House, which works with bereaved children from 4 to 18.

Mackenzie (Photo Credit: Kelly Jones Photo Naples Photographer)

“We can’t make mom or dad come back, but we can give them ways to still connect and express what they’re thinking and feeling,” Andrus said.

When Hurricane Ian hit, it took an already vulnerable group and ripped away the little sense of security they had left.

“The other layer of the damage, of just personal belongings that belonged to someone who died also being gone and taken away in the flooding and in the damage from the storm… it’s devastating,” Andrus said. “We had some of our caregivers, some of our moms, express [that] ‘We feel like our grief was taken away from us; now we can’t even grieve because we have to rebuild our home or figure out insurance.'”

An estimated 7,000 children in Collier County are grieving the loss of either a parent or sibling, and all those children have memories of their loved ones.

“Lives are changed here,” Mackenzie said. “Every single kid that’s ever walked through these doors… they never left feeling the way they did when they entered; they always left with a smile on their face, maybe a few tears.”

For Mackenzie, Valerie’s House became a home away from home that rooted her.

“I’ve met very wonderful people who helped me, who I would honestly, like, owe them my life,” Mackenzie said.

That’s why the now-college freshman still comes back to volunteer.

WINK News and Gulfshore Life are sponsors of the Naples Winter Wine Festival.

New Year, Same Challenges

FORT MYERS, Fla. — Chelsea Harper moved to Southwest Florida after being homeless in Michigan, not long after she met her husband, Tim.

They each had two children before, and after they married, they had two children together. Life as they knew it took a turn when their daughter was two.

“My husband was diagnosed with stage 4 throat cancer, HPV positive,” said Harper.

Tim’s cancer spread to his stomach, abdomen, lower back, liver and lungs and his health continued to decline.

“Unfortunately, last year at Christmas time, on Christmas Eve, actually. His oxygen level was extremely low and his heartbeat was extremely high, as if he had been running a marathon. He was only sitting in a chair,” Chelsea said.

The following week he went in for a procedure and doctors nicked something. His lungs started bleeding and they couldn’t control it.

Doctors put Tim in a medically induced coma and on a ventilator. It was only supposed to be for a few days but Tim wasn’t getting better.

“On New Year’s Eve, last year was the first time they almost lost him in the middle of the night. He coded for 45 mins,” she said about her husband.

It happened two nights in a row and doctors couldn’t do anymore, so Chelsea asked if they could make Tim comfortable and let him go peacefully.

She said, “I stayed with him. I felt his last heartbeat, I felt his last breath and I dropped to the floor. I don’t remember much more of that night. It’s. Still, it’s so hard even a year later.”

It all happened around the holidays and the New Year. Three days after Tim passed, his good friend reached out to Chelsea and told her about Valerie’s House in Fort Myers. “We set up a time to meet and it was like immediate family, immediate family.”

It wasn’t easy after the loss she just experienced.

“Our first group night, I actually was going to bring them in and I was going to go sit in my car in the parking lot and wait. But I brought the kids in and we got our name tags and they went off to their groups and I went to my group instead of the parking lot. I was like, wow, they’re literally saying all the feelings that I’m hiding inside.”

When grieving, there are moments of strength and weakness, but because of Valerie’s House, it’s a benefit for Chelsea and her children.

“It’s amazing to watch my kids interact with other children knowing they’re going through the same thing.”

Just like adults, kids grieve too. This new year brings new or the same challenges for families like Chelsea’s.

“My youngest son really struggles. He’s been very angry since my husband passed. That’s just how he copes with it, my youngest daughter. She sings she will sing about anything and everything; she sings about her daddy being in the hospital and he went to heaven,” said Chelsea.

But now every time the holidays and the new year roll around.

“It’s been a year. It’s been over 367 days since my husband passed, and it feels like it’s been 24 hours.”

Her story is a reminder that even though it is the new year and a happy time for some, “I mean even this new year everybody at midnight was like Happy New Year on Facebook, I put “New year… not quite so happy”, because for some of us, it’s not.”

Chelsea says, look out for those who you know are struggling or going through something that’s life-changing like death in the family, loss of their home, the loss of a pet even. “Be there for those people and smile at everybody because you never know how a smile can change someone’s day.”

Interior Designers Announced for Valerie's House New Forever Home

Construction of the Lee County Forever Home

FORT MYERS, FLA. January 17, 2023 – Valerie’s House is one giant step closer to completing its dream of having a home of its own for grieving children and families in Lee County.  Several local interior designers have stepped up to be the first to donate their creativity for the home under construction at 3551 Shoemaker Lane in Fort Myers.

The designers are the latest in a long list of community support for Valerie’s House, which initially began with the donation of a one acre property from the City of Fort Myers in November of 2019.  Lennar Homes, Tomahawk Construction, Wayne Wiles Carpet, Creighton Construction and several others have stepped forward to help complete the project, which had been delayed due to COVID.

“We are very grateful for all of the people who continue to want to be a part of Valerie’s House,” said Founder and CEO Angela Melvin.  “Having the creative talents of local interior designers is helping us bring this house of healing to life.”

The initial interior designers on the Valerie’s House Lee County Forever Home team are as follows:

●  Lisa Davenport of LDD Interiors in Naples/Bonita Springs;

●  Jolene Hardy of Jolene Designs in Fort Myers;

●  Luanza Maitland of Norris Furniture and Interiors in Fort Myers; and

●  Mickey Dickson Marzucco of Ecru & Ebony Design in Naples;

The designers have helped Valerie’s House create floor layouts for the different healing rooms to allow each space to be functional for the grief support groups and other activities that will be held at Valerie’s House.

Valerie’s House is now seeking local furniture stores, lighting, window treatments, and other businesses that will help furnish and fill the interior spaces.

A complete list of room designs and needs is posted on the Valerie’s House website at www.valerieshouse.org/first-floor-design and www.valerieshouse.org/second-floor-design.

Among the more unusual items needed are boxing gloves, hanging punching bags and tumbling mats for the Valerie’s House Volcano Room.

“Our Volcano room will help youngsters burn off energy and anger about the loss in their lives.  Punching bags and boxing gloves will help them express the emotions they are feeling,” Melvin said.

There are 30 rooms to furnish with some still available for sponsorship.  All donors will be permanently recognized on a wall in the hallway of support. To make a donation, visit www.valerieshouse.org/capital-campaign, call 239-478-6734, or email Project Manager Sterling Lund at sterling.lund@valerieshouse.org

“If you haven't donated yet, please consider being a part of our family,” Melvin said. “We are so close to reaching our goal. When the doors later this year, you will know you are a part of this legacy for our community.’

A total of $2.6 million has been raised toward the $3 million cost of the new home that is under construction on land donated by the City of Fort Myers under a $1 per year lease.  

The home will be a cozy, warm, old Florida style structure. The 7,000-square-foot facility will also allow Valerie’s House to help more children and provide wrap-around services, such as individual grief counseling to support families who desperately need it.

Lennar Homes is acting as the project manager for the construction of the home, which is expected to be completed by late summer.  

Valerie’s House has helped more than 2,000 children and their families since its founding in 2016 by Angela Melvin, whose mother Valerie was killed in a car accident in 1987.

One in seven children in Florida is predicted to lose a parent or sibling before the age of 25, according to the 2022 Childhood Bereavement Estimation Model.

Valerie’s House currently offers peer support groups and other activities at locations in Fort Myers, Naples, Punta Gorda, Port Charlotte and Pensacola. Valerie's House is a United Way partner agency and is fully supported by community donations.

About Valerie’s House

Valerie’s House opened in January 2016 and has served more than 2,000 children and their families from Lee, Collier, Charlotte, and Hendry counties. The organization provides a safe, comfortable place for children to share, grieve and heal together following the death of a close family member. Valerie’s House has three locations: 1762 Fowler St. in downtown Fort Myers, 819 Myrtle Terrace in Naples and group therapy meetings at several churches in Charlotte County.  For more information, visit www.valerieshouse.org

Valerie’s House Receives Donation for New Home Grief support center for children will expand with new location

December 9, 2022

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Valerie’s House Receives Donation for New Home

Grief support center for children will expand with a new location

Pensacola, Fla. – December 9, 2022  - Valerie’s House, a non-profit in Pensacola with the sole mission of helping children grieve the death of a family member, will expand into a new home thanks to the generosity of a donation from a Pensacola family foundation.

The Chadbourne Foundation has donated $500,000 for the purchase of the new Valerie’s House in Pensacola.  The Chadbourne Foundation, under the leadership of Caroline and Brian DeMaria, made the donation after getting to know the mission when a family member and their child attended Valerie’s House support groups. Valerie’s House- The Chadbourne Foundation Home for Grieving Families will be located inside a cozy, historic home at 904 East Gadsden Street. 

Chadbourne Foundation, statement

Valerie’s House- The Chadbourne Foundation Home for Grieving Families is the first free standing location in the region with its sole mission to offer ongoing grief support for children and adults at no cost to families.  Valerie’s House is not a formalized counseling center, but a community and a platform for grieving families to come together and help each other through the grieving process. Valerie’s House is based on a national model and helps children share, connect, and build bonds with other kids their age. The program uses a variety of art, music and journaling activities.  The vision of Valerie’s House is that no child will grieve alone.

Valerie’s House Pensacola founder Crista Brandt, whose own mother died when she was 11 years old, said the new home will allow the organization to help many more grieving children in a warm and inviting environment.

“We are very grateful for The Chadbourne Foundation’s generosity and their belief in our mission,” Brandt said.  “This new home will be a game changer in how our community is able to help families heal after a death in their family and it is a dream come true for our families.”

Valerie’s House expanded into the panhandle in late 2020 with Brandt’s leadership and in less than two years, has helped more than 100 children and their families find connection and healing in one of their various peer support groups.

 “When I was 11, my mother lost her battle with cancer.  I didn’t know anyone that had a parent die or understand what I was dealing with,” Brandt said. “I held in my pain and it made it much worse for my family.  It’s our mission to make sure no child ever has to grieve alone in our community.”

Valerie’s House Pensacola has been utilizing the Big Brothers Big Sisters building off Creighton Road since opening in 202 but has quickly outgrew the space.

Brandt says Valerie’s House is looking forward to the opportunities the new house will bring in helping grieving children and families in the community.

“We know grieving families need to be together and to have a place where they know they can be themselves and heal without judgement,” Brandt said. “That’s exactly what this home will be for our families. We are excited for the future.”

About Valerie’s House

Valerie’s House first opened its doors in 2016 in Fort Myers in a small cozy home and has followed with expansions into Naples, Port Charlotte, and now Pensacola, Florida.  Valerie’s House was founded by Angela Melvin, whose mother Valerie, died in a car accident in 1987.

Valerie's House is a 501 © 3 non-profit and its Pensacola chapter is a United Way partner agency and fully supported by community donations.  To learn more, please go to www.valerieshouse.org/pensacola or contact Crista Brandt at crista@valerieshouse.org.

Fort Myers family has Christmas light show to sponsor grieving family

by Alexia Tsiropoulos

8:34 PM EST, Tue December 13, 2022

But for the McQuade family, it is about more than lighting up the night sky.

These twinkling lights can be seen for miles along Ranchette Road in Fort Myers.

“ I don’t think a lot of people like to take the time to put up all these cool lights so I think it’s really cool they were able to do this,” Adlei said. She was most excited to see Santa Claus.

The McQuade family starts setting up about six weeks in advance before opening their gates. Which many look forward to.

“Adds to the Christmas festivities for the community and for a lot of people there are so many different stories that we hear about how much this is meant to different families and how they’ve been bringing your kids here since they were literally weeks old,” David McQuade said.

But for McQuade and his family, it is about more than just the Christmas carols and glistening lights.

“In past years, we’ve sponsored families that have had children battling cancer,” he said

This year, they worked with Valerie’s House to find the perfect family to sponsor.

“Nicole and her family, She has three children, a Fort Myers family. And we wanted them to not have to worry about anything this Christmas,” Valerie’s House Founder and CEO Angela Melvin said. “We wanted them to have tons of gifts and we wanted them to have dinner.”

She said it was a tough decision picking a family for the McQuade family.

“So many families could benefit from any kind of financial assistance, especially at this time of year,” Melvin said.

McQuade knows the work of putting the thousands of lights in his yard is all for good.

“I wish we could help everybody but if we can make a difference in one person’s life, I mean it’s worth all the time, and all of the effort that we put into it,” He said.

The McQuade family has their light schedule on their Facebook page.

There you learn more about Nicole and her family, as well as when Santa will make a quick stop.

Valerie’s House on Nationally Aired LIVE with Kelly Ripa & Ryan Seacrest Show

What an incredible opportunity for Valerie’s House to have a chance to speak about Valerie’s House and the plight of grieving children on a national level. The live segment below aired in December 2022 and the outpouring of support from around the country after the segment aired was nothing short of extraordinary.

Valerie’s House Founder Angela Melvin Appears On National Television

December 2, 2022

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Valerie’s House Founder Angela Melvin Appears On National Television

FORT MYERS, Fla. – December 2, 2022 – Angela Melvin, founder and CEO of Valerie’s House, was a special guest on “Live With Kelly Ripa and Ryan Seacrest” on WINK-TV today.

Melvin said she received a call November 22 from the show’s producers, asking if she would be available for the interview as their Good News story.

The six-minute interview was done via Zoom from the Valerie’s House location in downtown Fort Myers.

As a result of the interview, Melvin said she has received dozens of calls and emails asking about Valerie’s House and how callers can have a Valerie’s House in their community.  The Kelly Ripa and Ryan Seacrest show also donated $5,000 to Valerie’s House to continue their good work.

“It was a great experience as I was able to tell the Valerie’s House story to a national audience and spread the word about how to help children grieve the loss of a loved one,” Melvin said after the interview.

Valerie’s House first opened its doors with 20 children and their caregivers on the evening of January 11, 2016, in a small house in downtown Fort Myers.  Since then, the organization has grown to help more than 2,000 children and expanded into three additional locations across Southwest Florida, including Naples, Punta Gorda, Port Charlotte and its newest location in Pensacola.

The interview came on the heels of National Children’s Grief Awareness Month in November. One in seven children in Florida is predicted to lose a parent or sibling before the age of 25, according to the 2021 Childhood Bereavement Estimation Model.

In addition to talking about the founding of Valerie’s House, Melvin discussed the Pay It Forward vision of Valerie’s House where teens who have gone through the program then come back and mentor other grieving children.

Ryan and Kelly also asked Melvin about Valerie’s House expanding throughout the state and nationally.  Melvin replied, “We know there are many places around the country that are without grief support services for children and if we can help other communities start something similar to Valerie’s House, we will do so.”

Valerie’s House provides a safe, comfortable place for children and their families to heal together following the death of someone they love. Valerie’s House offers support groups and other activities at a home on 1762 Fowler Street in Fort Myers and a home in Naples at 819 Myrtle Terrace. Valerie's House also holds group meetings in Charlotte County at First United Methodist Church in Punta Gorda at 507 W. Marion Ave. and at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church at 2565 Tamiami Trail in Port Charlotte.  Support services are also offered in Pensacola. Valerie's House is a United Way partner agency and is fully supported by community donations.  More information can be found at www.valerieshouse.org.

California Closets Makes Major Donation to Valerie's House for New Forever Home

FORT MYERS, FLA.,– California Closets has made a major gift to Valerie’s House for its new Forever Home under construction at 3551 Shoemaker Lane in Fort Myers.

California Closets has donated $50,000 to sponsor one of the new therapy rooms and has agreed to donate the materials and labor to install the built-in shelving and closets throughout the home. “We are very grateful to California Closets for helping us build our new Forever Home,” said Valerie’s House Founder and CEO Angela Melvin.  “The generosity of Bo Woods and Suzi Henderson ensures that we will be able to fulfill our mission of no child grieving alone after the death of a loved one.”

The built-ins will be needed throughout the home to store materials needed for grief support activities, according to Sterling Lund, Valerie’s House project manager. One of the most important areas to be built into the new home will be the teddy bear wall.

Woods said they have been supporters of Valerie’s House for several years.

“Our goal is to apply our expertise and product to create a calm, organized space that allows the staff at Valerie’s House to focus on what matters most,” Woods said.

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California Closets plans to spend a day volunteering on property to install their custom pieces. “It is important to our company that everyone can be involved in helping make this project possible” says Woods.

A total of $2.5 million has been raised toward the $3 million cost of the new home that is under construction on land donated by the City of Fort Myers under a $1 per year lease.  Several room sponsorship opportunities for the community are available.

The home will be a cozy, warm, old Florida style structure, with special rooms like a volcano room, which allows children to work out any anger or other emotions they have because of their loss.  The 7,000-square-foot facility will allow Valerie’s House to help more children and provide wrap-around services, such as individual grief counseling to support families who desperately need it.

Lennar Homes is acting as the project manager for the construction of the home, which is expected to be completed by mid-2023.  

Valerie’s House has helped more than 2,000 children and their families since its founding in 2016 by Angela Melvin, whose own mother was killed in a car accident in 1987.

One in seven children in Florida is predicted to lose a parent or sibling before the age of 25, according to the 2022 Childhood Bereavement Estimation Model.

Valerie’s House currently offers peer support groups and other activities at locations in Fort Myers, Naples, Punta Gorda, and Port Charlotte. Valerie's House is a United Way partner agency and is fully supported by community donations.

For more information about Valerie’s House or to make a donation to the Forever Home Campaign, visit www.valerieshouseswfl.org/capital-campaign, call 239-478-6734, or write angela@valerieshouseswfl.org. 

About Valerie’s House

Valerie’s House opened in January 2016 and has served more than 2,000 children and their families from Lee, Collier, Charlotte, and Hendry counties. The organization provides a safe, comfortable place for children to share, grieve and heal together following the death of a close family member. Valerie’s House has three locations: 1762 Fowler St. in downtown Fort Myers, 819 Myrtle Terrace in Naples and group therapy meetings at several churches in Charlotte County.  For more information, visit www.valerieshouse.org

About California Closets

For more than forty years, California Closets has built a reputation as a leader in premium and luxury space management, delivering truly custom products and unparalleled service California Closets sees home as more than just a place—it is a source of comfort and refuge, a space for connection and celebration. Committed to offering quality custom storage solutions, California Closets helps give people a sense or organization that allows them to focus on what matters most. Today, there are 120 showrooms and 700+ designers across North America.

Valerie’s House Volunteer Paying it Forward and Helping Others

Paying kindness forward. A young adult who grew up going to Valerie’s House after her mom died is now starting to volunteer to help other kids dealing with loss.

Thursday was National Children’s Grief Day. It’s not a day to celebrate but to make people stop and think.

The people at Valerie’s House help kids in pain every day.

“I’ve been coming here for seven years. My siblings and I have been coming here for seven years. It’s a place that just changed their life around. It changed my life personally in a way that not a lot of people would have done,” said Josselin Calderon, a volunteer at Valerie’s House.

Calderon lost her mom when she was 15. Valerie’s House helped her get through it. She said it was her turn to help others.

“Being able to help other kids and show them, hey, look, I was a mess, but I turned out to be just fine, and it’s the same for you. Just take it one day at a time,” Calderon said.

“The kids are so insightful, and they grasp the concepts that we put forward to them,” said Arinelle Lewis,  the group night and resource navigator at Valerie’s House.

Lewis said it’s important for kids to grieve in a safe, stress-free space.

“Just getting to watch them interact with the other kids and grow, the kids that start off kind of timid because it’s their first time. And then come for a few months and watching them grow and get more comfortable,” said Lewis.

Calderon said she misses her mom more and more each day, but she knows how to handle that. “I wish she was here. But I can say now that I turned out to be fine. I turned out to be OK.”

Now Calderon’s job is to show kids that they can survive the pain of loss just like she did.

Valerie’s House served as a shelter with food and necessary supplies for families impacted by Hurricane Ian.

They said grief is all around us.

A Message to Grieving Children

This is a message from some of our staff at Valerie's House.

The Lampila Family

Jeff Lampila lost his wife seven years ago and is a single father raising two children. Finn, age 13, and Kinzley, age 8, attend Valerie’s House with their dad for peer grief support groups. They were one of the first Valerie’s House families to ever walk through our doors.

Valerie’s House gives Children a voice during National Children’s Grief Awareness Month in November

Valerie’s House, a nonprofit organization helping children grieve the loss of a loved one, is participating in National Children’s Grief Awareness Month in November with numerous activities to give grieving children a voice.

“The loss and destruction the Southwest Florida community has experienced from Hurricane Ian now further compounds the emotions grieving children are experiencing. Children are grieving so much – their schools, their homes, their entire neighborhoods, another loved one in their life may also have died,” said Valerie’s House Founder and CEO Angela Melvin. “We must stand with them and support them now more than ever.”

Two major events are planned during the month:

• Valerie’s House in Fort Myers will host an open house so the public including families, school professionals, and other community members can tour the house and learn more about its grief support services Thursday, Nov. 17, which is National Children’s Grief Awareness Day. Professionals who work with children are encouraged to wear blue and drop by Valerie’s House at 1762 Fowler St. from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. RSVP to molly@valerieshouse.org.

• Valerie’s House in Naples will host a Live Art Event on Friday, Nov. 18, at 819 Myrtle Terrace. Visitors are invited to drop by from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. to meet local artists, enjoy small bites and a raffle as well as an opportunity to tour Valerie’s House and learn more about how art helps children heal. Tickets are free. RSVP to sarah.andrus@valerieshouse.org.

Throughout National Children’s Grief Awareness Month, Valerie’s House will share personal stories from families during videos, podcasts, interviews and other profiles posted on Facebook and on their website. They also are encouraging residents to share their own stories of loss on social media and how they have survived the trauma.

Valerie’s House counselors have been invited into Lee County schools during November to train school personnel on how to help children experiencing the trauma of losing their school or home to Hurricane Ian.

One in seven children in Florida is predicted to lose a parent or sibling before the age of 25, according to the 2021 Childhood Bereavement Estimation Model.

Valerie’s House provides a safe, comfortable place for children and their families to heal together following the death of someone they love. Valerie’s House offers support groups and other activities at a home at 1762 Fowler St. in Fort Myers and a home in Naples at 819 Myrtle Terrace. Valerie’s House also holds group meetings in Charlotte County at First United Methodist Church in Punta Gorda at 507 W. Marion Ave. and at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church at 2565 Tamiami Trail in Port Charlotte. Support services are also offered in Pensacola. Valerie’s House is a United Way partner agency and is fully supported by community donations. More information can be found at www.valerieshouse.org.

Valerie’s House Gives Children a Voice During National Children’s Grief Awareness Month in November

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Valerie’s House                                                                                                                                                      Susan Bennett Marketing & Media 

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Valerie’s House Gives Children a Voice During

National Children’s Grief Awareness Month in November

FORT MYERS, Fla. – October 31, 2022 – Valerie’s House, a nonprofit organization helping children grieve the loss of a loved one, is participating in National Children’s Grief Awareness Month in November with numerous activities to give grieving children a voice.

“The loss and destruction the Southwest Florida community has experienced from Hurricane Ian now further compounds the emotions grieving children are experiencing. Children are grieving so much – their schools, their homes, their entire neighborhoods, another loved one in their life may also have died,” said Valerie’s House Founder and CEO Angela Melvin.  “We must stand with them and support them now more than ever.”

Two major events are planned during the month:

●        Valerie’s House in Fort Myers will host an open house so the public including families, school professionals, and other community members can tour the house and learn more about its grief support services Thursday, November 17, which is National Children’s Grief Awareness Day.  Professionals who work with children are encouraged to wear blue and drop by Valerie’s House at 1762 Fowler St. from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Please RSVP to molly@valerieshouse.org

●        Valerie’s House in Naples will host a Live Art Event on Friday, November 18, at 819 Myrtle Terrace.  Visitors are invited to drop by from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. to meet local artists, enjoy small bites and a raffle as well as an opportunity to tour Valerie’s House and learn more about how art helps children heal. Tickets are free. RSVP to sarah.andrus@valerieshouse.org

Throughout National Children’s Grief Awareness Month, Valerie’s House will share personal stories from families during videos, podcasts, interviews and other profiles posted on Facebook and on their website. They also are encouraging residents to share their own stories of loss on social media and how they have survived the trauma.   

“We are asking everyone to join with us in helping. Reach out to anyone you know who is grieving and tell them about Valerie’s House.  Let them know we are here for them and that they are not alone.  Give them a voice, let them know you hear them,” Melvin said.

Valerie’s House counselors have been invited into Lee County schools during November to train school personnel on how to help children experiencing the trauma of losing their school or home to Hurricane Ian.

“A lot of kids are grieving the loss of their school and their classmates in addition to the loss of their homes.  They need a sense of normalcy, which we will strive to provide so that school personnel can better respond to students impacted by Ian,” Melvin said.

Valerie’s House first opened its doors with 20 children and their caregivers on the evening of January 11, 2016 in a small house in downtown Fort Myers.  Since then, the organization has grown to help more than 2,000 children and expanded into three addtional locations across Southwest Florida, including Naples, Punta Gorda, Port Charlotte and its newest location in Pensacola.

One in seven children in Florida is predicted to lose a parent or sibling before the age of 25, according to the 2021 Childhood Bereavement Estimation Model.

Valerie’s House provides a safe, comfortable place for children and their families to heal together following the death of someone they love. Valerie’s House offers support groups and other activities at a home on 1762 Fowler Street in Fort Myers and a home in Naples at 819 Myrtle Terrace. Valerie's House also holds group meetings in Charlotte County at First United Methodist Church in Punta Gorda at 507 W. Marion Ave. and at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church at 2565 Tamiami Trail in Port Charlotte.  Support services are also offered in Pensacola. Valerie's House is a United Way partner agency and is fully supported by community donations.  More information can be found at www.valerieshouse.org.

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Valerie’s House Teens Give tour of Valerie’s House

Join some of the Valerie's House teens on a quick tour through our facilities at our Fort Myers location.

Valerie’s House helps SWFL grieve after Ian

FORT MYERS

Whether you’ve lost a loved one or not, Hurricane Ian has affected you.

Seeling all the damage can only add to the mental strain.

That’s where Valerie’s House comes in to help you out.

The number of people visiting for grief support is higher than ever.

Families like the Moranvilles say they are thankful for everything the nonprofit is doing.

“We had pretty bad flooding. Everything in the house was destroyed, so, it was pretty devastating,” Diane Moranville said.

Moranville lost her husband to cancer just weeks before the storm.

Then Ian hit, and they lost everything.

“Having more time to sit and talk and reminisce and, you know, losing the home and all of this, we just, our communication is just tremendous. And it’s as bad as it seems. It’s a blessing because we’re getting so much closer. And we’ve always been close, always. It’s opening up, and it’s helping him open up,” she said.

Her son Evan is the reason she decided to call the nonprofit.

“Valerie’s House has helped me and the other moms that are dealing with this same exact thing, some in different ways,” Moranville said. “It really helps you see that, that you’re not alone. And it’s OK to come out and get some help because you need it.”

Evan learned how to rip out drywall after the storm damaged their home.

“I feel more useful. Like, I don’t know, I feel like because I’ve been doing it becausee like before, my dad would just kind of do stuff and I’d be there. But it’s like now actually doing I feel like I’m actually like, a part of something,” Evan said.

Evan said surrounding himself with others going through the same thing helps him feel heard.

“It’s pretty comforting, you know, because none of my friends obviously have that same thing. So, to talk to other people about it who’ve gone through the same thing, especially people who are my age, has been nice,” Evan said.

Valerie’s House, a 100-year-old home in Fort Myers, made it through the storm with barely a scratch.

Since the storm, Valerie’s House has been using it as a refuge for families.

As the death toll rises, the nonprofit said they are getting prepared for the number of children and families who will be grieving the death of a family member due to Ian.

“I think that’s pretty much the main goal, you know, to feel like you’re not the only one. Because if you’re, if you’re just sitting in your house all day, and you’re not talking to other people about it, you’re gonna, you’re gonna feel alone. Especially with stressful times stuff, you’re not gonna, you’re not gonna feel like there’s other people who are going through the same thing who can’t help,” Evan said.

Valerie’s House ready to help families in need after Ian

Writer: Matthew Seaver

WINK News

Valerie’s House weathered Hurricane Ian and came out the other side with very little damage.

The organization is now allowing the community to use the 110-year-old house and surrounding facilities as a refuge for families. They are providing air conditioning and hot meals to families who need them.

Valerie’s House says it understands that many families are in desperate need after losing their homes and belongings.

The organization says it is also preparing to help those children and families that are grieving lost loved ones as a result of the storm.

Valerie's House Hires Director of Programs

FOR MORE INFO:

Angela Melvin, CEO                                                   Susan Bennett, APR, CPRC

Valerie’s House                                                          Susan Bennett Marketing & Media 

239-204-5804                                                              (239) 277-5255

Angela@valerieshouse.org                                        sbennett@susanbennett.biz

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

VALERIE’S HOUSE HIRES DIRECTOR OF PROGRAMS 

FORT MYERS, FLA., September 6, 2022 – Valerie’s House has hired Val Gill as the Director of Programs.

In her new role, Gill will help grieving families who have lost a loved one by creating and nurturing programs that will help them heal.

“We are very fortunate to have someone with Val’s background join Valerie’s House,” said Valerie’s House CEO Angela Melvin.  “She has been a volunteer at Valerie’s House for the past four years.  The children and families here made such an imprint on her heart that she decided to join the team full-time.”

Gill earned her bachelor’s degree in criminology from USF followed by her Master of Arts in mental health counseling from Florida Gulf Coast University.

She has experience in not-for-profit agencies overseeing clinical, prevention and community outreach programs.  As director of clinical and prevention services at the Children’s Advocacy Center in Fort Myers, she witnessed the transformation from survivor to thriver in many children and adolescents.

Most recently, she had her own private practice specializing in trauma-related life challenges. 

Valerie’s House has locations in Naples and Fort Myers and has provided grief support services to more than 400 Collier County children and caregivers since its opening in Collier County in 2017. 

Valerie’s House was founded in Fort Myers in 2016 by Angela Melvin, whose own mother was killed in a car accident in 1987, and has expanded to include locations in Fort Myers and Naples as well as Punta Gorda, Port Charlotte and Pensacola.

One in seven children in Florida is predicted to lose a parent or sibling before the age of 25, according to the 2022 Childhood Bereavement Estimation Model.

Valerie's House is fully supported by community donations.

About Valerie’s House

Valerie’s House opened in January 2016 and has served more than 2,000 children and their families from Charlotte, Sarasota, Glades, Lee, Hendry and Collier, counties as well as the Florida panhandle. The organization provides a safe, comfortable place for children to share, grieve and heal together following the death of a close family member. Valerie’s House has five locations: 819 Myrtle Terrace in Naples, 1762 Fowler St. in downtown Fort Myers, and grief support group meetings at 1st United Methodist Church at 507 West Marion Ave. in Punta Gorda and Holy Trinity Lutheran Church, 2565 Tamiami Trail, in Port Charlotte. Support services also are available at the Charlotte Family Services Center at 21500 Gibralter Drive in Port Charlotte.  For more information, visit www.valerieshouse.org

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Valerie’s House Announces $50,000 in College Scholarships

 FOR MORE INFO:

Angela Melvin, CEO                                                                   Susan Bennett, APR, CPRC

Valerie’s House                                                                                                                                                      Susan Bennett Marketing & Media 

239-204-5804                                                                                                                                                                                         239-277-5255

angela@valerieshouse.org                                                                                                                                               sbennett@susanbennett.biz

Valerie’s House Announces $50,000 in

College Scholarships

FORT MYERS, Fla. – August 8, 2022 – Valerie’s House, a nonprofit organization in Southwest Florida helping children grieve the loss of a loved one, has awarded $50,000 in college scholarships for graduating high school seniors who have come through and found support in the Valerie’s House grief support program..

It’s the first year that Valerie’s House has offered the scholarships of $2,500 per year for four years for a total of $10,000 per student. Five local students were chosen based on an essay they each wrote about their personal grief story and how their loss shaped them as the person they are and the person they want to become.

The scholarship recipients are:

●        Alexis Dehetre of Fort Myers, who graduated from Mariner High School and plans to attend Florida Gulf Coast University;

●        Mackenzie Francois of Naples, who graduated from Gulf Coast High School and plans to attend Florida Gulf Coast University;

●        Taylor Gagnon of Fort Myers, who graduated from Bishop Verot High School and attends Nova Southeastern University;

●        Coral Morley of Naples, who graduated from Naples High School and plans to attend the University of Georgia; and

●        Allison Stenza of Naples, who graduated from Barron Collier High School and plans to attend Florida Atlantic University.

“This is the next step in the grieving process to help these young adults who have lost a loved one,” said Valerie’s House Founder and CEO Angela Melvin.  “We are very grateful to our donors who have made this scholarship program possible.”

The scholarship funds may be used for classes, materials, or anything they need during the school year.

“The students are to check in with us every semester and tell us something that they worked through that was challenging during the semester, how they worked through it or something great that they accomplished, “ said Staci VanSlambrouch, mentor and family support coordinator who is in charge of the scholarship program.

To donate and help the Valerie’s House Scholarship Fund, visit www.valerieshouse.org/donate

Valerie’s House first opened its doors with 20 children and their caregivers on the evening of January 11, 2016 in a small house in downtown Fort Myers.  Since then, the organization has grown to help more than 2,000 children and expanded into three locations across Southwest Florida, including one in Naples and Punta Gorda.

One in seven children in Florida is predicted to lose a parent or sibling before the age of 25, according to the 2021 Childhood Bereavement Estimation Model.

Valerie’s House provides a safe, comfortable place for children and their families to heal together following the death of someone they love. Valerie’s House offers support groups and other activities at a home on 1762 Fowler Street in Fort Myers and a home in Naples at 819 Myrtle Terrace. Valerie's House also holds group meetings in Charlotte County at First United Methodist Church in Punta Gorda at 507 W. Marion Ave. and at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church at 2565 Tamiami Trail in Port Charlotte. Valerie's House is a United Way partner agency and is fully supported by community donations.  More information can be found at www.valerieshouse.org.

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Alexis Dehetre

Mackenzie Francois

Taylor Gagnon

Coral Morley

Allison Stenza

CFS Roofing Makes Major Gift To Valerie's House New Forever Home

July 26, 2022

FOR MORE INFO:

Angela Melvin, CEO                                                                   Susan Bennett, APR, CPRC

Valerie’s House                                                                                                                                                      Susan Bennett Marketing & Media 

239-204-5804                                                                                                                                                                                         239-277-5255

angela@valerieshouse.org                                                                                                                                               sbennett@susanbennett.biz

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

CFS ROOFING MAKES MAJOR GIFT

TO VALERIE’S HOUSE NEW FOREVER HOME

FORT MYERS, FLA., July 26, 2022 – The new “Forever Home” of Valerie’s House under construction on Shoemaker Lane will have a free roof, thanks to a donation in part by CFS Roofing Services.

CFS Roofing President David Crowther and his wife Karen have stepped up and agreed to provide the underlayment and labor to install the shingle and metal roof for the 7,000 – square-foot building.  Shingles for the roof will be provided at no cost by GAF & ABC Roofing. The CFS gift is valued at $15,000.

“Our success provides an opportunity for CFS and its employees to give back to organizations like Valerie’s House through money, skills and time,” Crowther said.

After 30 years in the family business, David Crowther stepped out on his own to open CFS Roofing Services in 2010.  The company is a full service, licensed and insured roofing and sheet metal contractor for both residential and commercial construction in addition to a full service mechanical division.

Recent projects include Cypress Cove at HealthPark in Fort Myers, Cape Coral Fire Station, the new GGG High School in Naples, and the Historic Punta Gorda Train Depot, to name just a few. 

“We are so thankful that David and CFS Roofing have joined our family of donors.  Valerie’s House exists because of the generosity of CFS Roofing and so many others who have made our dream a reality,” said Valerie’s House Founder and CEO Angela Melvin. “This home will always be a place for grieving families to call their own. Regardless of what happens in the future, having this home means no child will ever have to grieve alone in our community.”

A total of $2.5 million has been raised toward the $3 million cost of the new home.   Several room sponsorship opportunities for the community are available.

The home is a cozy, warm, old Florida style structure, with special rooms like a volcano room, which allows children to work out any anger or other emotions they have because of their loss.  The facility will allow Valerie’s House to help more children and provide wrap-around services, such as individual grief counseling to support families who desperately need it.

Lennar Homes is acting as the project manager for the construction of the home, which is expected to be completed by mid-2023. 

Valerie’s House has helped more than 2,000 children and their families since its founding in 2016 by Angela Melvin, whose own mother was killed in a car accident in 1987.

One in seven children in Florida is predicted to lose a parent or sibling before the age of 25, according to the 2022 Childhood Bereavement Estimation Model.

Valerie’s House currently offers peer support groups and other activities at locations in Fort Myers, Naples, Punta Gorda, and Port Charlotte. Valerie's House is a United Way partner agency and is fully supported by community donations.

For more information about Valerie’s House or to make a donation to the Forever Home Campaign, visit www.valerieshouseswfl.org/capital-campaign, call 239-478-6734, or write angela@valerieshouseswfl.org. 

About Valerie’s House

Valerie’s House opened in January 2016 and has served more than 2,000 children and their families from Lee, Collier, Charlotte, and Hendry counties. The organization provides a safe, comfortable place for children to share, grieve and heal together following the death of a close family member. Valerie’s House has three locations: 1762 Fowler St. in downtown Fort Myers, 819 Myrtle Terrace in Naples and group therapy meetings at several churches in Charlotte County.  For more information, visit www.valerieshouse.org

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