The Healing Power of Understanding

Tabitha was killed in a hit-and-run accident on the evening of February 13, 2021. She was only 34. The shock of her sudden death rippled through her family and left them with the unbearable anguish of loss and a tremendous amount of heartache and stress, not knowing who had done this.

Tabitha’s mother, Terri, said, “We would all like some small measure of closure.”

But unfortunately, to this day, the police still have no solid leads in her case.

Jaslene, Tabitha’s daughter, was referred to Valerie’s House- Charlotte County by a social worker at her middle school. She and her grandmother, Terri, had no idea a place like this existed. It was tough for Jaslene to go to group night at first.

No one really wants to come to Valerie’s House because it means someone you love has died.

Terri and Jaslene decided to give it a try and have been attending group nights in Punta Gorda ever since. They have found that the camaraderie, stories, and helpful information shared among the families have helped them tremendously.

Terri said, “Before being referred to Valerie’s House, I didn’t know anyone who had lost a child. But knowing, talking, and listening to others on this journey has helped us find good ways to cope with our loss.”

Terri and Jaslene believe there is something very powerful in being with others who can empathize with your experiences.

Jaslene and Terri are enjoying time together with their family again.

They like boating, eating at restaurants, and attending community events together. They have made major strides and look forward to seeing Jaslene go to college as she discovers her path to happiness and success.

They encourage anyone who has experienced a loss to find something in their community, like Valerie’s House, where they can find the same understanding and support that they have found.

If you or someone you know is grieving the loss of a loved one, please reach out to Valerie’s House at (239) 204-5804.