Love and Loss: Beverly's Story
/After three months of fighting Covid-19 in the intensive care unit, Beverly's husband of twenty-one years lost his battle in September 2021. Gilberto was sixty-one years old and the father of three children. He was a man of faith and known for his love of the gospel.
Beverly attends group night at Valerie's House- Punta Gorda with her daughter, Gilnelys, who is twelve years old. The two are working on processing their grief and healing together after their loss.
"I compare my journey with a rollercoaster," Beverly said. "All the ups and downs in our emotions is something not easy to handle alone. But, when you have a support group that you can identify with, it's easier when you know people that are just like you. It becomes your safe place."
She discovered Valerie's House while at the cemetery where Gilberto is buried. A representative gave her the information and highlighted the benefits of being a part of a peer grief support group.
Beverly said Gilnelys struggled with sadness and anger after the death of her father. However, since coming to group nights at Valerie's House, she now expresses her emotions in a healthy way and has hope for her future.
"It was amazing to feel connected with her again," Beverly said. "Every time we go to Valerie's House, our emotions get better."
The Lopez family likes to do various activities together, including watching movies and going bowling. Their favorite meal to share is pizza.
In the future, Beverly hopes to see her children achieving their goals and helping others.
"No one should grieve alone. It's too painful," Beverly said. "I'm so grateful to God for Valerie's House for all their help. I pray it can continue helping families in need that are grieving."